11 reasons why you should date a woman who travels.

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Love, love is a beautiful thing that can be complicated at times as well. There are some situations that can make your love life a bit easier, like living in the same state or at least in the same country as your significant other. But even if you do, there are some people out there like myself. People that are craving to see the world, to experience, discover and explore our beautiful world. And sometimes, being in a relationship with a person like that can be difficult. Should the constant feeling of wanderlust that your partner has be a deal breaker in your relationship?

I don’t think so. And therefor I will give you 11 reasons why you should date, in my case, a woman who travels.

1: Date a woman who travels because she is independent. Do not let her independence intimidate or frighten you. Love this quality about her. She can face the toughest challengers that life throws in her face while having the biggest smile on her face, she has her financial situation under controle and she is not clingy. She is not afraid to be by herself. Recognize these qualities and love her for it. And just because she is independent, does not need that she does not need you. Of course she does, however she does not need you to complete her. She feels complete but she wants you to add something to her life and that is why she wants to be with you. Never feel insecure about this part.

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2: Date a woman who travels because she is curious. She is curious to see the world and look further than her comfortable life back at home. She is curious to learn about other cities, countries and cultures. This curiosity will result in a state of openmindness she could never accomplish while living her life in her comfort zone.

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3: Date a woman who travels because she is open minded. As mentioned in the second statement her being openminded is a wonderful thing. Because she travels, meets different people from different backgrounds, has seen so much different cities and countries, she is used to different lifestyles. She won’t be a judging judy about every little thing that you do.

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4: Date a woman who travels because she is not afraid to try new things. A woman who travels is more likely to say yes to your proposal to try something new. Her curiosity have lead her to many challenges in life and she is always open to try something new, she likes to broaden her horizon, because that is just the way she is. So you want to go skydiving? Bungeejumping? Big chance that she has already done those things in the most beautiful and exotic locations all around the world

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5: Date a woman who travels because she is less materialistic. Because she is used to be on the road so often she has gotten comfortable with living with only the necessary stuff and than some. She does not need the latest designershoes or the latest luxury IT-Bag. Of course a woman who travels can still like fancy pansy stuff but it is not a necessity. She can survive without it.

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6: Date a woman who travels because she is a smartypants. A woman who travels gets the best education anyone could ever have. The education of life with the world as her school. It honestly does not get any better than that. Remember when you were back at school? Going to all those boring lectures, making your never ending homework. How much have you actually learned from that that you are still using these days? And now think back of that internship that you did the 3rd year of your Uni and how much that that has brought you? Traveling is like a big internship. You learn so much more in the real world. A woman who travels develops a sense of street smartness that you can’t get anywhere else. She is used to thinking fast, handeling well in the most awkward and annoying situations and she is a star in managing herself.

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7: Date a woman who travels because she has great stories to tell. A woman that travels has seen so much of all the beauty in our world. She can tell you stories about the most beautiful sunsets she has seen at one of the most amazing beaches in Bali, the time she spend in a meditation camp where she was not allowed to talk for 10 days, the train trip through Europe she enjoyed a lot, the time she locked her self out of her hotel room in Thailand. These are just a few examples. A woman who travels is like an endless well filled with exciting stories!

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8: Date a woman who travels because she will understand you if you are canceling a date. Like mentioned in the first statement. She is independent.but this is not the only reason why she understands if you cancel a date and she won’t get upset about this. She probably has a dozen other things that she can do, like plan her next trip or scroll through Pinterest to get inspired about new travel destinations. She won’t resound clingy and make you feel guilty because she actually has more things going on in her life than just you.

960272_115239688682994_1397114288_n9: Date a woman who travels because she understands it often is about the journey and not just the destination. Sure she has seen some great parts of the world and some pretty awesome destinations but that does not mean that the journey is not equally important to her. She enjoys every little thing. From the plane and train ride and flight to the trekking routes through the forest, the climbing of a mountain before she get’s to the point where she has the most amazing view. She loves her journeys. And this is also applicable for the inner journey that she has taken to get her to the point where she is now. And she will encourage you and she will support you in all your journeys because she recognizes that working on your self and exploring and discovering the world are things that are priceless and very rewarding.10505154_259771777563117_8484374208020942468_o

10: Date a woman who travels because she feels good about her self. A woman that feels good about her self won’t force you to ‘fix her’ because she is able to take care of her self. She feels comfortable leaving the house with out any make up on and her hair tied up in a bun on top of her head. She feels pretty and secure just the way she is because while traveling she has learned that you don’t have all the time in the world to spend on ‘glamming your self up’. She’d rather watch the sunrise than spend time in the morning blow-drying her hair in a nice due. Even though she is comfortable with her self without make up, in sweats and with a bun on her head she also enjoys to get dolled up at times. But she understands that this is not necessary everyday and a casual day from times to times is okay as well. 954821_148509882022641_653815982_n

11: Date a woman who travels because she will never forget you. Please try to understand, that if an exhilarating woman like this that meets tons of people on a daily bases goes out with you, she sees something in you that she thinks is worth holding on too and worth combining with her at times chaotic lifestyle. She can be on the road quite often but that does not mean that it is out of sight out of mind. She will always remember you and will tell people she meets during her travels about that fantastic person that is back home. Because home to her, even though she is a citizen of the world, will always be where you are.

With love,

x

5 comments

  1. Such a great post! I broke up with my bf last year because apparently he does not like the idea of me travelling so often 😦
    It was really hard. IF only he was able to see all these..

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